Many relationships in campus are founded on basis of carnal lust and sensual debauchery. As a result very few of them manage to survive the test of time and thrive to the happy path of marriage in future.
The main reason as to why many of these relationships end up in a fiasco is the wrong choices dudes make in choosing who to date.
There is an old adage that goes this way "Behind every successful man there is a woman behind."To some extent that is true.No man in his right sense of mind would ever want to end up with a physically attractive woman who lacks intelligence.
As guys our attraction to women is sometimes basic and shallow. We get blinded by women who dazzle our eyes with visual splendour.Lipsticks,mascara,short dresses etc at the expense of reserved girls .Looks are deceiving and not all that shimmers under the sun are gems.
Every dude desires a woman of iron and steel, a paragon of virtues and decorum.And all these should be traced from campus.
Sadly,majority of campus girls are complete reversal.Many of them are party goers .They know more beer brands than the units they are doing in a semester. They gulp large quantities of alcohol than how a camel in marsabit drink water after long distance of waking.
Who's a potential wife material? To help you navigate this dicey matter I have compiled for you some distinct trait you should identify for in a girl.
Dress code
Campus girls are culprits of indecent dressing even when go to class.Rule out those girls who walk around campus donned in camisole tops exposing their navels and booty shorts showing their thongs. Certainly, this is not the type of girl you would want to introduce to your parents as your would-be wife. They will probably disown that relationship before it happens.
Character
A campus girl devoid of good morals is an ominous sign of a future promiscuous wife likely to destroy your marriage through infidelity and siring children outside wedlock.
With rising cases of STDs ravaging modern marriage, she could be the cause of sending you to early grave before getting to your 40s.
Frugality /Spendings
This should not be interpreted that a girl should be mean with money.A mean girlfriend will most likely emaciate your kids and starve them to death.
Money is essential in any marriage. Without it very little can be achieved.Identify a wife material with the way she budgets her pocket money. No misplaced priorities or grotesque cases of conspicuous-consumption.
If she's the type who spends on irrelevant stuffs, buys guarana first instead of buying handouts,don't wife her.Money is an asset that should be guided at whatever cost.
Written by Ben Mugambi
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