HOW TO APPROACH GIRLS IN CAMPUS WITHOUT APPEARING AWKWARD

Two of the biggest challenges a campus boy faces in seduction process is how to start a convo with a girl and how to climax and finish it without appearing awkward. You spot a really fine chick walking merrily in a group of bevy of beauties and you feel intimidated. You want to approach her but again you feel like your vibe might backfire.

Approaching girls in campus is not a cake in the mouth matter. As guys we've all found ourselves, at one point in time standing back and rationalizing if it's the appropriate time to act. If it's hard enough approaching women in clubs where the environment invites social communication, then imagine how much harder it is in a learning environment.

No need to worry. This is how you approach girls in campus and hit the bulls eye.


Be a smart dresser

The way you are dressed matters a lot. Trust me a girl will snub you if you approach her with a rusted shirt that has a stain on the sleeve. She might not tell you but eventually you will realize it yourself. By being smart it doesn't mean you deplete your money on all the trendy clothes in the market. Just dress smartly. This gives a woman the impression that you are doing well in life.

All girls want guys who are decent and sartorially good looking, not normal men who just want sex without offering any security. Understand this - A girl decides whether they are interested or not even before you talk to them. If she sees that you look like a focused guy, she will entertain your vibe. Otherwise she will give you hell.


Approach a girl when she is walking slowly

If a girl is rushing to classes, you have zero chances of getting her. You will just end up doing a walk race that will leave you mortified and embarrassed. Close in when she is walking slowly probably to her hostel or maybe in a crowded area. In that instance you are somehow covered and no one will notice if you get rejected. Also, she won't see you coming when there are people around.

Just because you know that you are a nice guy doesn't mean that she does. When you approach a campus girl, it is important for you to know that most will be caught by surprise (if it's a place where approaches aren't usually made) so they can snub you. This is normal, and the most important thing is for you to come across as a harmless guy. Take it slowly and talk kindly. If you feel that things aren't going so well, withdraw quickly.


Lenga tabia za kifisi

You are obviously a fisi but avoid looking like one. Some guys keep on sabotaging any good chances they have by keeping their eyes fixed down on a woman's breasts or buttocks. Instead, keep your eyes locked onto hers all the time. Remember you want her to think of you as a brave, romantic guy who will take her to cloud nine rather than a thirsty guy who eyes every pretty face that passes by. The way she looks at you helps whether to initiate a courtship salvo or pull back. Don't force if she's looking uncomfortable.
The rules of Eye-contact.

1.If she looks down, she's instantly attracted but shy

2.If she looks at you only for a second then looks away and stare at anything else apart from you, she's not interested at all.

3.If she holds eye contact with you intensely she is interested in whatever you want to say.


Self-confidence pays

Calm your nerves. No need to pant and have your heart racing like an athlete talking to a news reporter. Some guys tend to get nervous when talking to girls and act like they are about to delve into a marriage proposal that their lives depend on. By acting in such a way they appear desperate. Relax it's a simple approach all you need is to say "Sasa" and create a normal non-sexual conversation. Don't try to pick up lines. Just talk normally the way you talk to other chics. Understand this-women love confident men.


Process 2

HOW TO ASK FOR HER NUMBER WITHOUT APPEARING CREEPY.

The absolute best way to leave with her contact is to ASSUME THE SALE.

What am I talking about? Simply hand her your smart phone and say

"Key in your number. I'll hit you up with a plan sometime."

Say it with a wry smile. She won't knock your phone away. Trust me.

Why does this work so well?

1.It's a boss move. By handing her the phone, you are taking charge of the situation. You are also not asking, you are demanding politely. Women get wet over dominant men.

2. It's a show of masculinity. Great men curve out their own path. They don't beg to be allowed in. In a world where men are begging and asking for phone numbers from women you will be telling her to put her number in.

3.It gives her expectations of greater things ahead. She knows that she is not giving her number for  nothing. She knows you will give her fun times.


What if she says she has a boyfriend?

Simply say :

"You have a boyfriend?"That's great. So does my girlfriend.

Or

"Who said I want to take his role."


And what if you meet the kind of chic who say "No" before you even say anything?


Once in a while you will encounter the NO girl. Before you even cough a syllable, she shots her hand and shouts "NO" or "JIPE SHUGLI." and there you are looking all embarrassed and confused! Your friends are probably laughing at you. Don't worry. No need to fret.

This type of chic is usually an average bimbo who thinks she's the hottest being on planet earth. Her programmed autonomic rejection is just an act she puts on for the sorry purpose of self-medicating her ever-vigilant ego.
Truly hot chics in campus don't do this nonsense because :


1.They aren't approached that often by men, most men are scared of them mostly because their beauty intimidate most men.

2.They don't have to be bitchy towards men to look cool

3.They are Sirenic in nature. According to the book "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene. A Siren is a beautiful woman who every man admires but they dare not approach her since they are not sure if they can handle her. Cleopatra of Egypt was a siren,Helen of Troy was the greatest siren to have ever existed. Sara Maldonado, the most beautiful woman in North America is also a siren.  


The NO chic is often found in groups of her BFFs because it is fun for her to reject a guy to the amusement of her cackling bitch friends.


DON'T LET HER HUMILIATE  YOU


If you display resentment or appear insulted you are letting the NO girl win. Learn how to dismiss her faggy theatrics with honed reaction such as these:


THE NO GIRL:*Hand shot up*No

YOU:Hey chill, nilikuwa nataka kukuliza kama wewe ndio umenyamba

Hahaha

Or


Hey chill out, Nilikuwa nataka kukwambia uko na sukuma kwa meno.



Telling her to chill out is important because you are avoiding humiliation by humiliating her instead. You want everyone within earshot distance to understand she is crazy for reacting so hostile. Social shaming is a bitch taming. Any day, anytime.

Alternative version


THE NO CHIC :*Hands shot up *No

YOU:Hey chill out. I came over to talk to your friend.


There is also the non-verbal response.


THE NO GIRL:*Hand shot up*No

YOU:High five the girl`s hand and walk away.

Happy hunting and remember the number is just the beginning and should be the last resort. All the best.

Photo credit - Jane Wanji(model) 

Written by Ben Mugambi